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If you’ve ever tried to force God’s timing, read this

Aug 1, 2025

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If you’ve ever tried to force God’s timing, read this

I stopped white-knuckling life and that's when the peace came

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
The dopamine itch and the devotional fan

Jul 31, 2025

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7 min read

The dopamine itch and the devotional fan

How I’m learning to stay the course, make sacred things with my hands, and ask to be carried when the itch for more kicks in

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
Not every breakdown is a breakthrough

Jul 30, 2025

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8 min read

Not every breakdown is a breakthrough

A letter to a friend (and myself) about love, addiction, and the illusion of transformation.

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
I'd rather just be married

Jul 29, 2025

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8 min read

I'd rather just be married

Built for an arranged marriage, forced to fucking date

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
She carries the lineage now

Jul 28, 2025

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7 min read

She carries the lineage now

Finding our way back to spiritual authority rooted in womanhood and wisdom

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
Uncertainty still shuts me down

Jul 26, 2025

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8 min read

Uncertainty still shuts me down

On being a sacred paradox at the rodeo, wounds that still need healing, and mean girls with puppies

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
Reclaiming the wild, erotic intelligence of desire

Jul 25, 2025

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8 min read

Reclaiming the wild, erotic intelligence of desire

On telling limitation to fuck off, what Kairos time is, and letting the erotic spark of your becoming lead

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
I'm coming in swinging today

Jul 24, 2025

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8 min read

I'm coming in swinging today

Healing the divides between men and women starts with swallowing something hard, and you're not gonna like it

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
You are not small and narrow

Jul 23, 2025

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7 min read

You are not small and narrow

A love letter to the part of you that knows your life is the art.

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
Not all of what we feel is ours

Jul 22, 2025

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7 min read

Not all of what we feel is ours

On how constellation work clears what lives in the body, honors our ancestors, and reminds us of what's here and now

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
You can't business-plan your destiny

Jul 21, 2025

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7 min read

You can't business-plan your destiny

The anxious grip of control, the wisdom of the chakras, and why trust is the real power move.

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
On learning to be a bad artist first

Jul 19, 2025

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8 min read

On learning to be a bad artist first

Deciding to live as an artist is the scariest thing I've done

Valerie Spina
Valerie Spina
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